Dear Daisy, GNamer Romantic Mishaps Thread

My year in this aspect has started off really slow, mainly because I keep working all the damn time and haven't gone out

Balladeer wrote:

've met two others for dinner since the start of the year

So that's two dates in two and a half weeks. I stand by my original point.

I don't think it's weird a girl asked you to go Scotland, I once asked a girl to go Paris with me

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Asexual without me searching for it, am I right in thinking they don't feel anything sexual like being attracted to anyone. So balla you could look like gollem or brad pitt and still have the same amount of chance with this person at shoot at umm nothing. So it be like dating a Jehovah Witness (or any other religious group that don't believe in  till after marriage) wait that be me. Also how did that even come up on a date and why did she go on a date with you to start with.

Update from me Girl Number 2 is still into her EX, so cant' be bothered with her. Number 3 is still just a friend. So it's Number 1 aka the EX shes coming down for my birthday for a week and were going Cornwall.

I'm not quite sure how it (asexuality) works, but I'd imagine that's close enough. I mean, she can probably appreciate aesthetic beauty, like I can appreciate when a man is attractive, but it just doesn't make her feel any differently. As to how it came up, I asked her out for dinner, we went to a pub afterwards, she said she hadn't known it was going to be a date until I offered to pay, and told me as an excuse. And now she likes me (as a friend) because I didn't react like most people she's met, which was, "But that's not even a thing," or, "But I asked you out RAEG."

And you've just proven that it is weird for someone to ask you to Scotland if they just want to be friends!  Anyway, I gave her what I hope was quite a firm "no" this morning.

Paris that's like Kalos but in your world.

I didn't think she want to be just friends though.

Balladeer wrote:

I mean, she can probably appreciate aesthetic beauty

Then what's sh-- nah, too easy.

Balladeer wrote:

I'm not quite sure how it (asexuality) works, but I'd imagine that's close enough.

I wound up looking into that after being accused of it myself, and funnily enough there was a bit on it on the BBC News website a bit ago: http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-16552173 . It came up in a discussion of celibacy, too.

The long story short is that it's basically a disinterest in sex- that doesn't necessarily exclude romance, and they may subsequently grit their teeth and get on with it for reproductive purposes- but isn't the artificial choice not to bother that is celibacy.

I hate to bring up the most inconsistently-written, poorly researched character in the most unrepresentative tv show that should have ended at least two seasons ago, but...
Is it basically the deal with Sheldon from Big Bang Theory?

Initially, yes, I think so. I'm not sure what he is now.

Big Bang is excellent you strange people.

In the Show Sheldon is dating Amy but that's about it the most sexual thing they've had is a game of dungeons & dragons.

Yeah Big Bang theory is brilliant you weirdo's

Big Bang Theory used to be pretty good, but it's gone on too long. Everyone's in nice little couples so there's no drama any more. I still watch it, and get the odd chuckle.
Also, there's the fact that every other joke is just "haha, isn't it funny that some people read comic books"

The Big Band Theory is the TV equivalent of Journey, bollocks.

Is Big Bang a multiple award winning TV show like Journey is a game or do you mean the band.

If it has won any awards it's as undeserving of them as Journey!

Didn't know in till now Journey won GDC GOTY which has the be highest accolade as it's developers voting not just so called journalists. But were going right of topic of relationships or the lack off the.

Had our work christmas do tonight. Had some great moments with the girl I'm really into, but she was super drunk. Can't bring myself to be "that guy". We get on really well when she's sober, but we're in work or situations like that where nothing can happen.
But yeah, feeling really good   

It's AUS try not to be racist day today it's all alcohol and BBQ

You're doing well enough on your own with the BBQ and beer.  

Buskalilly wrote:

...but she was super drunk. Can't bring myself to be "that guy".

Good!

Just ask her out Buska, and good that you didn't take advantage as like you said could be awkward at work.

And what happened to the girl at Tesco.

Buskalilly wrote:

Had our work christmas do tonight.

...in January?

beemoh wrote:

...in January?

Yep. Welcome to supermarkets...
@Mas; this is the same girl. I probably will ask her out at some point. The problem is, she already gets a lot of unwanted attention from every creepy single guy in work and I can tell she thinks of me as the one guy she can actually trust. And for my part, she's probably my favourite person at work and I would hate to make a move she wasn't interested in and ruin a friendship which is one of the few things keeping me sane in Tesco.

Weren't you texting her like 3am, when I stayed over. If she's texting you that sort of time, surely she likes you. Yeah I know what you mean I used to talk to Dr Who girl all the time but now I rarely do after I asked her out. I personally feel embarrassed talking to people that you like & reject you. And could imagine it be awkward if in same department and can't avoid.

We had all are x-mas parties in December but I worked the bakery x-mas do.

Ah, no, this isn't that one. She didn't work in my store, she just happened to work at another Tesco. We knew each other from school. She has a boyfriend now.   

Buskalilly wrote:

Had our work christmas do tonight. Had some great moments with the girl I'm really into, but she was super drunk. Can't bring myself to be "that guy". We get on really well when she's sober, but we're in work or situations like that where nothing can happen.
But yeah, feeling really good   

Sounds a lot like my Christmas do, my response to being "that guy" was to sober her up with water, worked a charm.